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For six or so months, we were told that
For six or so months we were told that
quiet diplomacy, to keep quiet, to trust
quiet diplomacy to keep quiet to trust
that the government are doing what
that the government are doing what
they're doing and everything's doing it
they're doing and everything's doing it
behind closed doors. Um, didn't see any
behind closed doors Um didn't see any
movement. And to be fair, the the one
movement And to be fair the the one
thing that really triggered us going
thing that really triggered us going
public was the 12-day war. At that
public was the 12-day war At that
point, they were due to be moved to
point they were due to be moved to
Evin, which was subsequently bombed. Um,
Evin which was subsequently bombed Um
and we didn't know where they were.
and we didn't know where they were
Quite simply, the government had lost
Quite simply the government had lost
track of them. There was nobody on the
track of them There was nobody on the
ground to locate them. Um, luckily we
ground to locate them Um luckily we
found out they hadn't been transferred.
found out they hadn't been transferred
They were still in car park. But that
They were still in car park But that
period of time of not knowing was the
period of time of not knowing was the
worst of the whole 11 months that we've
worst of the whole 11 months that we've
been endured because you are just
been endured because you are just
constantly thinking the worst and you've
constantly thinking the worst and you've
got no way of clarifying it.
got no way of clarifying it
>> And what's the latest now? What what are
>> And what's the latest now What what are
you hearing from your own government but
you hearing from your own government but
also anything from the Iranians at all?
also anything from the Iranians at all
>> I mean from the government side it's
>> I mean from the government side it's
they've been to court now three times.
they've been to court now three times
Um, both separately, different amount of
Um both separately different amount of
times. Sometimes we're organized, others
times Sometimes we're organized others
will whist away, but we're being told,
will whist away but we're being told
you know, there's this policy to kind of
you know there's this policy to kind of
sit and wait and ride out the judicial
sit and wait and ride out the judicial
process. Uh, and at the moment they're
process Uh and at the moment they're
in limbo. Um, and that's how it feels is
in limbo Um and that's how it feels is
that we've got two states that are just
that we've got two states that are just
at stalemate waiting for one to make a
at stalemate waiting for one to make a
move.
move
>> And you've been able to talk to your
>> And you've been able to talk to your
mother though. I mean, what what have
mother though I mean what what have
you been able to say to each other and
you been able to say to each other and
what's that been like for you?
what's that been like for you
>> Yeah, I mean, so she did a hunger
>> Yeah I mean so she did a hunger
strike. They both did a hunger strike
strike They both did a hunger strike
recently in the last couple of weeks.
recently in the last couple of weeks
Uh, and they were at their wits' end. You
Uh and they were at their wits' end You
know, it was a big cry for help because
know it was a big cry for help because
they'd been promised to be able to see
they'd been promised to be able to see
each other, but also to call family. Um,
each other but also to call family Um
and that hadn't happened. And the first
and that hadn't happened And the first
call I got from my mom, spirits were
call I got from my mom spirits were
very low. You could tell in her voice
very low You could tell in her voice
she was broken. Um, very, very emotional
she was broken Um very very emotional
and she was on sort of day five of the
and she was on sort of day five of the
hunger strike.
hunger strike
>> What's What was that like for you to
>> What's What was that like for you to
hear that in your mother's voice? To
hear that in your mother's voice To
hear the person that means the most to
hear the person that means the most to
you in the world suffering is the most
you in the world suffering is the most
horrific experience I can share to be
horrific experience I can share to be
honest with you. Um
honest with you Um
she's my source of strength of
she's my source of strength of
inspiration. Always has been since I was
inspiration Always has been since I was
a kid and and you know for once it was
a kid and and you know for once it was
probably roles reversed. I felt like the
probably roles reversed I felt like the
parent at this point, right, in trying
parent at this point right in trying
to keep calm and and reassure and say
to keep calm and and reassure and say
keep your strength, you know, and not
keep your strength you know and not
telling her what to do because it's her
telling her what to do because it's her
own body, but I was very concerned that
own body but I was very concerned that
she wasn't eating and putting herself
she wasn't eating and putting herself
through more
through more
just move to more turmoil, right?
just move to more turmoil right
Because she's already enduring enough.
Because she's already enduring enough
So, let's bring Richard in here because
So let's bring Richard in here because
obviously you you've been through that,
obviously you you've been through that
of course, as well. It reminds me so
of course as well It reminds me so
much of what you said to me over the
much of what you said to me over the
years when Nazene was incarcerated.
years when Nazene was incarcerated
Talking to her over the phone was a
Talking to her over the phone was a
roller coaster for you as well. What
roller coaster for you as well What
what do you say to Joe? I mean to deal
what do you say to Joe I mean to deal
with the emotions of his ordeal, but
with the emotions of his ordeal but
also how you how he deals with the
also how you how he deals with the
governments um because you've of
governments um because you've of
course been advising him as well,
course been advising him as well
haven't you?
haven't you
>> Yeah, it brings back all sorts of
>> Yeah it brings back all sorts of
memories. Um and I do remember actually
memories Um and I do remember actually
sort of in Nazanin's case those early
sort of in Nazanin's case those early
months
months
where we don't know what's going on. We
where we don't know what's going on We
fear the worst. Sometimes our fears
fear the worst Sometimes our fears
aren't, you know, it's worse than that.
aren't you know it's worse than that
Sometimes it's better than that. But I I
Sometimes it's better than that But I I
do remember the coldness of her on the
do remember the coldness of her on the
phone when she was on hunger strike and
phone when she was on hunger strike and
how distant and and feeling like gosh
how distant and and feeling like gosh
the powerlessness. What what can we do
the powerlessness What what can we do
to keep her going? And in terms of
to keep her going And in terms of
advice, I mean there isn't one
advice I mean there isn't one
size-fits-all. Um different you know our
size-fits-all Um different you know our
journey was our journey. Joe's journey
journey was our journey Joe's journey
will be his. But but I know for me the
will be his But but I know for me the
more sunlight there was the more the
more sunlight there was the more the
government justified or had to justify
government justified or had to justify
what on earth they were doing 'cause it
what on earth they were doing 'cause it
looked to me for a long time like they
looked to me for a long time like they
weren't doing very much at all. Um and
weren't doing very much at all Um and
it was very opaque language about
it was very opaque language about
raising concerns and so on.
raising concerns and so on
>> And you'd hope the British government
>> And you'd hope the British government
and the Foreign Office have learned a
and the Foreign Office have learned a
lot from your ordeal. Joe, do you think
lot from your ordeal Joe do you think
that's the case? Are they doing enough
that's the case Are they doing enough
for you to to help you with uh what's
for you to to help you with uh what's
going on?
going on
>> In all honesty, no. Um there's too many
>> In all honesty no Um there's too many
similarities to Richard Nazanin's case
similarities to Richard Nazanin's case
which are for the for the worse. You
which are for the for the worse You
know, it is that passiveness to to
know it is that passiveness to to
subdue what you're saying. Um
subdue what you're saying Um
and it's not it's just taking
and it's not it's just taking
accountability. I just don't feel like
accountability I just don't feel like
that's what they're doing. It's that
that's what they're doing It's that
they they themselves are being very
they they themselves are being very
passive. You know, they're they've got
passive You know they're they've got
two UK citizens that are accused of
two UK citizens that are accused of
spying for the British state, but then
spying for the British state but then
not coming out and defending them um and
not coming out and defending them um and
calling it for what it is. You know,
calling it for what it is You know
that's I think the biggest thing for me
that's I think the biggest thing for me
is that you need to stand up for for
is that you need to stand up for for
your citizens. Um, you know, and call it
your citizens Um you know and call it
out. It's arbitrary detention quite
out It's arbitrary detention quite
clearly. It's almost hostage-taking at
clearly It's almost hostage-taking at
this point. Well, it is hostage-taking in
this point Well it is hostage-taking in
my eyes.
my eyes
>> I mean, the foreign office has said in
>> I mean the foreign office has said in
the past that they don't want to give
the past that they don't want to give
too much and they don't want you to give
too much and they don't want you to give
too much currency uh to, you know, to to
too much currency uh to you know to to
Lindsay and Craig and and to Nazine in
Lindsay and Craig and and to Nazine in
the past and raising too much of a
the past and raising too much of a
hullabaloo about it actually makes them
hullabaloo about it actually makes them
makes the other side want to keep them
makes the other side want to keep them
for longer. Does that kind of convince
for longer Does that kind of convince
you at all? Is there any justification?
you at all Is there any justification
>> Not at all. No. I mean, why why wouldn't
>> Not at all No I mean why why wouldn't
I want to raise the case, right? It's my
I want to raise the case right It's my
mom and and my stepdad, and I want them
mom and and my stepdad and I want them
home desperately. So, whatever I've got
home desperately So whatever I've got
to do to to make that happen, I'm going
to do to to make that happen I'm going
to. Um, and the the thing that really
to Um and the the thing that really
annoys me about what they say in in in
annoys me about what they say in in in
that sense is that they're out there. If
that sense is that they're out there If
they're on charges of shoplifting,
they're on charges of shoplifting
potentially, that's understandable.
potentially that's understandable
Let's see the court of law. Let's go
Let's see the court of law Let's go
through it. If they've they've been
through it If they've they've been
caught doing, they haven't. and they've
caught doing they haven't and they've
been accused of espionage, which is
been accused of espionage which is
state level political charges, right?
state level political charges right
They're not spies. It's quite simple.
They're not spies It's quite simple
>> Richard, we, as you referring to,
>> Richard we as you referring to
The TV series is out now about your
The TV series is out now about your
story and Nazanine's uh story. Do you
story and Nazanine's uh story Do you
think that will have an effect as well?
think that will have an effect as well
Sometimes drama, more than journalism,
Sometimes drama more than journalism
actually does have an effect on
actually does have an effect on
government. And what's it been like for
government And what's it been like for
you to kind of, I guess, relive what you
you to kind of I guess relive what you
went through by watching it on screen?
went through by watching it on screen
>> Yeah, it's tough to revisit it. Um, you
>> Yeah it's tough to revisit it Um you
know, we all like to remember the good
know we all like to remember the good
times and and you know, it's tough those
times and and you know it's tough those
those early days and anyone that's
those early days and anyone that's
watched it, it's you know, the last
watched it it's you know the last
episode's nice, but the first episode's
episode's nice but the first episode's
full-on. Um, and you know, you can see me
full-on Um and you know you can see me
getting a bit triggered by some of the
getting a bit triggered by some of the
things that Joe's saying, but
things that Joe's saying but
actually the drama where it's a story
actually the drama where it's a story
comes about very strongly. Um, so
comes about very strongly Um so
Nazine, for example, didn't want to
Nazine for example didn't want to
watch it. Like I was the one that did
watch it Like I was the one that did
the checks to check, you know, how
the checks to check you know how
accurate it was. Yeah, it does bring
accurate it was Yeah it does bring
back some tough times. Um, but you're
back some tough times Um but you're
right that the reason for doing it was
right that the reason for doing it was
was hopefully as a warning that people
was hopefully as a warning that people
would learn the lessons that that this
would learn the lessons that that this
is what we went through. We went through
is what we went through We went through
this because the Iranian state is the
this because the Iranian state is the
way it is and it does just take pluck
way it is and it does just take pluck
people from obscurity and use them. Um,
people from obscurity and use them Um
and we we did it also because the
and we we did it also because the
British government in our case didn't
British government in our case didn't
step up, didn't protect, and you'd
step up didn't protect and you'd
hope there would be uh, you know, a
hope there would be uh you know a
learning of the lessons. So do do I
learning of the lessons So do do I
think the government has learned the
think the government has learned the
lessons? Well, you know,
lessons Well you know
the government when they came into power
the government when they came into power
made all these promises about how they were
made all these promises about how they were
going to establish a hostage envoy. They
going to establish a hostage envoy They
were going to put a right to consular
were going to put a right to consular
protection and um in law so that we
protection and um in law so that we
would have fair treatment. Hasn't
would have fair treatment Hasn't
happened yet. Um and it does feel to me
happened yet Um and it does feel to me
that that I'm, you know, hearing too
that that I'm you know hearing too
many echoes of our experience in the
many echoes of our experience in the
experience of Joe's family and
experience of Joe's family and
others.
others
>> I remember Richard, you saying to me, I
>> I remember Richard you saying to me I
said to you, how do you actually
said to you how do you actually
cope with this? because you had
cope with this because you had
extraordinary courage and great courage
extraordinary courage and great courage
to be able to actually relive it.
to be able to actually relive it
watching the TV series, but you said you
watching the TV series but you said you
keep it up until sometimes you go home
keep it up until sometimes you go home
and then you kind of fall apart for a
and then you kind of fall apart for a
while.
while
>> So, so exactly that. I I I mean, as Joe
>> So so exactly that I I I mean as Joe
said, I I would cope in compartments.
said I I would cope in compartments
So, I'd do this thing. I wouldn't do
So I'd do this thing I wouldn't do
this. I wouldn't like to watch things
this I wouldn't like to watch things
back. And and that would work for a
back And and that would work for a
while and then there are days where the
while and then there are days where the
where the wheels come off and you just
where the wheels come off and you just
have to accept we're not, you know, we
have to accept we're not you know we
can all step into battle mode, but we're
can all step into battle mode but we're
not built for battle forever. And to
not built for battle forever And to
just, yeah, you know, be kind to
just yeah you know be kind to
yourself.
yourself
>> I'm sure that helps, Joe,
>> I'm sure that helps Joe
>> massively. Yeah, it does. You know, and
>> massively Yeah it does You know and
and I think it's it's the right point is
and I think it's it's the right point is
because some days I feel like I'm
because some days I feel like I'm
winning the battle, right? And other
winning the battle right And other
days I feel like I'm being pummeled. You
days I feel like I'm being pummeled You
have to be present every day. I let
have to be present every day I let
myself get upset because they're natural
myself get upset because they're natural
emotions. I get I get angry, I get
emotions I get I get angry I get
frustrated, I you know, I cry. I laugh
frustrated I you know I cry I laugh
sometimes because I I look at back at
sometimes because I I look at back at
memories. You I think all of those
memories You I think all of those
emotions are completely normal.
emotions are completely normal
>> And what's the latest about what you
>> And what's the latest about what you
know from for both of them? They're not
know from for both of them They're not
with each other, are they? Being held
with each other are they Being held
separately. What do we know about their
separately What do we know about their
health, their welfare?
health their welfare
>> Yeah, I mean, so they they did get to
>> Yeah I mean so they they did get to
see each other on Sunday, but when they
see each other on Sunday but when they
got to see see each other, they're in a
got to see see each other they're in a
room which is, you know, um, it's barred
room which is you know um it's barred
cells, it's dirty sheets, the
cells it's dirty sheets the
cockroaches in a room. This isn't, uh, the
cockroaches in a room This isn't uh the
rits or anything like that. So, you
rits or anything like that So you
know, although it's nice they can be in
know although it's nice they can be in
each other's company, it's not where
each other's company it's not where
you'd want to choose to be in each
you'd want to choose to be in each
other's company, right?
other's company right
>> And I suppose the good news though is
>> And I suppose the good news though is
that you know it has ended well. It
that you know it has ended well It
ended the story ended well for Richard
ended the story ended well for Richard
and hopefully it will for you as well.
and hopefully it will for you as well
Does that keep you does that keep you
Does that keep you does that keep you
going?
going
>> Yeah, absolutely. It's the hope that
>> Yeah absolutely It's the hope that
keeps you going, right? Is that there is
keeps you going right Is that there is
hopefully a happy ending, which I'm I'm
hopefully a happy ending which I'm I'm
Yeah, I I I definitely think there is
Yeah I I I definitely think there is
going to be a happy ending at some
going to be a happy ending at some
point, but I just, you know, I hoping we
point but I just you know I hoping we
can learn lessons and that it isn't
can learn lessons and that it isn't
five, six years down the line when that
five six years down the line when that
happy ending comes. I'll take it
happy ending comes I'll take it
whenever it comes, but I'd like it to be
whenever it comes but I'd like it to be
a lot sooner than
a lot sooner than
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